This is a story that I documented years ago, because it was frustrating and funny at the same time. Someday, David will be famous for his ability to turn a situation around for his benefit. After reading this, you will probably understand why!
In 2009 David had some homework to complete on a Thursday, because it was due on Friday morning. He was not yet 8-years old. At the time my work schedule allowed me to pick him up at home and take him out to look for trains – along with doing his homework. Generally this method worked well; we both love trains and it was a way to keep him engaged. I tried to help him work at his own pace, while setting the goal that the work needed to be completed. The key with him is to maintain his flow rather than forcing my own. But on one particular Thursday, his flow became so funny that I started taking notes. It started when we got trackside in Seattle, at 2nd Ave S. and S. Horton Street at around 5:30pm.
Kurt: “Okay, now that we’re trackside let’s do some homework.”
David: “Not yet. I want to eat first. I want Burger King.”
BK is a mere block away from where we were shooting video. So we watched trains for awhile, went and got our food (Angry Whopper meal / Kid’s Plain Cheeseburger Meal) and went back to Horton. After eating our food and watching a few more trains, it was time.
David: “Not here. I want to do homework at Holgate.”
So we headed that direction, just in time to have a massive freight train go through the crossing. We parked along the side of the road and I shut off the truck.
Kurt: “Okay let’s get started.”
David: “No, not here.”
Kurt: “Why not?”
David: “Because we’re not at Holgate.”
He was right. I had parked on South Lander Street by mistake. So we headed north to Holgate and parked.
David: “I can’t work. The sun is in my eyes.”
Kurt: “Turn your back to it. This is where you chose to do homework.”
David: “…But I need to go to the bathroom.”
There isn’t a public restroom for miles in SODO. No parks.
Kurt: “Then we’ll need to go to Georgetown, mister. There aren’t any public restrooms around here.”
David: “Okay, I’ll start working on it. Can we play at the park after I do homework?”
Kurt: “Yes we can.”
So we headed south to Georgetown.
David: “Where’s my board?”
He was referring to the piece of wood he uses as a tabletop while sitting in the truck.
Kurt: “It’s behind the seat.”
David: “I can’t work without my board.”
We were almost there, so we parked the truck near the Georgetown Playfield. on a side street. I dug out the board from behind the seat. David looked down there and saw something else.
David: “I’ve got Hot Wheels down there.”
He tried to dig a bunch of stuff out.
Kurt: “It’s not time for Hot Wheels; it’s time for homework.”
He managed to dig something out anyway.
David: “Look…what’s this?”
He pointed a Potato Gun at my head.
Kurt: “I’ll tell you after you do homework. DON’T point that at people, mister. Even if it’s a toy.”
David: “Why? It’s not even real.”
Kurt: “Because it’s still not okay to point toy guns at people. Bad habit.”
David: “Where’s my pencil?”
He had managed to lose his pencil between Holgate and Georgetown.
David: “I don’t see it anywhere, Daddy. Did I throw it out the window?”
Kurt: “I really don’t know if you threw it out, mister. Here’s another one to use.”
I pulled another pencil from the visor.
David: “But my pencil had a Tiki eraser on it. I want that one.”
Kurt: “There are no choices here. That pencil is lost and I have another one.”
David: “Okay. What are you writing Dad?”
Kurt: “Nothing mister.”
I documented some more of our conversation on the back of an envelope. Then I went silent and looked out the window for the next 15 minutes, while David completed the three final pages. Total time involved to finish that last 15 minutes worth of homework?
1 3/4 hours.
Most Epic Procrastination Ever!